星云大师《佛光菜根谭之生活篇》

一等婆媳:如母女般的亲密 二等婆媳:如朋友般的尊重 三等婆媳:如君臣般的严肃 劣等婆媳:如冤家般的相聚 The first-rate relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like t

一等婆媳:如母女般的亲密

二等婆媳:如朋友般的尊重

三等婆媳:如君臣般的严肃

劣等婆媳:如冤家般的相聚

The first-rate relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like the intimate relationship between mother and daughter.

The second-rate relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like the respectful relationship between friends.

The third-rate relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like the imperious relationship of queen to subject.

The fourth-rate relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the spiteful relationship of two enemies.
 

一等父母:爱念子女,教以圣贤之道

二等父母:供给无乏,帮助成家立业

三等父母:溺爱宠信,任其游荡非为

劣等父母:不教不养,经常凌虐施暴

The first-rte parents love their children and train them in the way of sages.

The second-rate parents provide for their children's needs and help them establish families and businesses.

The third-rate parents pamper their children and leave them to idle away.

The fourth-rate parents do not train their children, but rather often mistreat them.
 

一等儿女:孝悌恭敬,晨昏定省

二等儿女:供亲所需,敬业乐业

三等儿女:游闲疏懒,结交损友

劣等儿女:作奸犯科,忤亲逆伦

The first-rate children show filial piety and address their parents morning and evening.

The second-rate children work hard to fulfill their parents' needs.

The third-rate children are lazy and make friends with bad people.

The fourth-rate children do bad thing and disobey their parents.
 

一等丈夫,幽默说笑,助理家务

二等丈夫,喝茶看报,赞美太太

三等丈夫,气势凌人,嫌东嫌西

劣等丈夫,在外交际,游荡不归

The first-rate husband has a sense of humor and helps with chores.

The second-rate husband enjoys tea with his newspaper,and praises his wife constantly.

The third-rate husband is a bully and complainer.

The fourth-rate husband revels with friends and returns home late.
 

一等太太,治家整洁,贤慧有德

二等太太,慰问丈夫,赞美辛劳

三等太太,唠叨不休,嫌怪家事

劣等太太,搬是弄非,制造事端

The first-rate wife is virtuous and keeps a neat home.

The second-rate wife comforts and praises her husband.

The third-rate wife is a nag and complainer.

The fourth-rate wife gossips and makes trouble.
 

一等出家人:发菩提心,行菩萨道

二等出家人:发出离心,安分守道

三等出家人:攀缘世情,俗不可耐

劣等出家人:自私自利,不守清规

The first-rate monastice have Bodhi minds and walk the path of the Bodhisattva.

The second-rate monastics aspire to be detached from worldly affairs,law-abiding,and content.

The third-rate monastics are vulgar,and inclined to worldly affairs.

The fourth-rate monastics are selfish,and reject pure precepts.
 

一等信徒:恭敬三宝,助宣文教

二等信徒:护法卫僧,正知正见

三等信徒:贡高我慢,自赞毁他

劣等信徒:正邪不分,谤僧毁法

The first-rate devotees honor the Triple Gem and help spread Buddhist teaching and education.

The second-rate devotees shelter the Dharma and the Sangha out of right understanding of Buddhism.

The third-rate devotees arrogantly praise themselves while slandering others.

The fourth-rate devotees cannot tell the true from the corrupt, but slander the Sangha and the Dharma.
 

一等主管:关怀员工,尊重专业

二等主管:信任授权,人性管理

三等主管:官僚作风,气势凌人

劣等主管:疑心猜忌,不通人情

The first-rate managers care for their workers and respect their skills.

The second-rate managers trust their workers to do their jobs.

The third-rate managers are arrogant bureaucrats.

The fourth-rate managers are jealous,suspicious, and inconsiderate.
 

一等员工:敬业乐群,忠勤作务

二等员工:认真负责,无愧操守

三等员工:偷懒怠情,胡混时光

劣等员工:制造事端,损人利己

The first-rate employees respect their jobs and co-workers,and are loyal and diligent in performance.

The second-rate employees work hard and responsibly,and are moral in their conduct.

The third-rate employees are lazy and waste time.

The fourth-rate employees incite conflicts for their own gain but others' harm.
 

一等同事:互相尊重,推敬其能

二等同事:合作无间,互补互信

三等同事:孤僻独行,自以为是

劣等同事:兴风作浪,破坏好事

The first-rate colleagues respect and commend each other's abilities.

The second-rate colleagues work well together,trusting and helping each other.

The third-rate colleagues are egocentric loners who scorn the opinions of others.

The fourth-rate colleagues are trouble-makers who undermine the achievements of others.
 

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